tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20595227.post1208189793286033398..comments2024-03-27T16:59:27.366-05:00Comments on Belief in myself!: Over the HumpMaryFranhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02507347923712459651noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20595227.post-19673760145956256292022-03-17T19:08:30.947-05:002022-03-17T19:08:30.947-05:00As someone who began my first ever house hunt last...As someone who began my first ever house hunt last year at this time, I feel your pain. There were some houses we wanted to see where we were one of 45 showings going through, and many were paying $20,000 over asking or paying cash, we couldn't compete. But while everyone was off playing on Memorial Weekend we sneaked into a lakehouse and we somehow got lucky. It will happen and it will be even better than you imagined. Trust me on this part, enjoy this time of not having to worry about things that could potentially go wrong on your dime. That, and not having to take care of the snow and grass are the only advantages of renting. <br />As for being a doormat...that's a self-worth thing. You deserve to have a job that doesn't make you feel this way. You deserve to have people treat you with respect. You can and must set boundaries as a way to show yourself kindness and as to reinforce that you are worthy of the life you want. Be honest with your feelings, people who really love and respect you will bend to your needs IF you tell them how you feel. If they don't, that means they don't truly love or respect you and THAT is your baggage, carrying the burden of feeling like you have to please others in order to be worthy of their respect. It's like that saying goes, life begins on the other side of your comfort zone. Be your own self-advocate. When that person hurts you catch them off guard by confronting them and telling them that their words don't inspire you to change but make you feel worse. And you really need a different job. Assume the culture will not change and start planning for something else. Life's way too short to be miserable!Amyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03500924758437763216noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20595227.post-70345792174910229692022-03-16T06:50:23.823-05:002022-03-16T06:50:23.823-05:00I'm sure you have heard everything about house...I'm sure you have heard everything about house buying! <br /><br />Location! Location! Location! <br /><br />Ask all the questions before signing papers!<br /><br />How is are the neighbors? Do they get along with everyone on the street? Block? How many times have the owners have had run ins with anyone around them with police? Noise? Or even yard work..... sounds so silly but you never know who is right on the sides of you or around you. <br /><br />Good luck!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20595227.post-38428135274322360532022-03-13T22:11:55.842-05:002022-03-13T22:11:55.842-05:00Work Stress...
Coffee is on and stay safeWork Stress...<br />Coffee is on and stay safepeppylady (Dora)https://www.blogger.com/profile/01649272822470007714noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20595227.post-78320030492724434972022-03-13T11:37:22.886-05:002022-03-13T11:37:22.886-05:00We have only bought one house. It was meant to be...We have only bought one house. It was meant to be a starter house but will be an end house as well I predict. I don't know if we were in love with it but it fits the bill on things we wanted and we could afford it. We were young and had horrible credit and our rate sucks. Like we never should have been able to afford a house. Anyone that follows the collapse of the housing market in FL Taylor, Bean, & Whitaker processed our loan. We held on and even refinanced at 2 points! That was dumb. We have been here for 19 years this year and still have way too much time on the mortgage due to the refinancing. Ok a book you didn't need to read. Sorry LOL I was gonna look into something and at it to my post so you get these thoughs. <br />Wish i could help with work, I sure can cheer you on with the loss though! WHOO HOOO!!!!Mrs Swanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15160136199959601329noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20595227.post-36260144994875268352022-03-12T22:47:36.694-05:002022-03-12T22:47:36.694-05:00I have bought a couple of houses that I didn't...I have bought a couple of houses that I didn't love. I love my current house. It appeared when I wasn't seriously looking. Then I left on a 2 week trip to Patagonia thinking that if it was still on the market when I got back I would buy it. It was. It was meant to be my house!Lynnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09669046315971951442noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20595227.post-85721395441305249782022-03-12T17:27:53.583-05:002022-03-12T17:27:53.583-05:00I read a book called Crucial Conversations that wa...I read a book called Crucial Conversations that was helpful for work. For the person in your life who is mean, I hope you can just leave the room or the conversation. I'd want to ask, why would you think that's a good thing to say? Maryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11166776565191771729noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20595227.post-5056620333311031722022-03-12T08:05:04.092-05:002022-03-12T08:05:04.092-05:00Weight loss is an adventure isn't it? I have b...Weight loss is an adventure isn't it? I have been stuck. But I kept at it and my weekly weigh in was good. I lost 2 pounds. I just need to keep it moving in the right direction. Smart move on the house. Don't settle! When it is right you will know & it will work out. I think you need to stand up for yourself with the person you love. It is not okay for them to be cruel & say hurtful comments. Don't change yourself too much. You are a sweet & thoughtful person & we certainly need MORE people like you in this world. It wouldn't be a bad idea to brush up the resume. There are jobs out there. Where is Jason at with his new business? Maybe you should start a business together!Paula Chttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16193381325829708384noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20595227.post-48200256176010975592022-03-12T07:32:28.128-05:002022-03-12T07:32:28.128-05:00
Well done on the weight loss in what has sounded ...<br />Well done on the weight loss in what has sounded like an emotional week.<br />jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11000062075347416626noreply@blogger.com